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"Parents located in north London is looking for an extraordinary and skilled instructor to guide their most junior child on his early path to turning into an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this post, you might naturally skip the wording "first-steps" as mere a turn of phrase.

But, it might be the crucial part of this distinctive job advert, as it aims to hire a mentor for a one-year-old.

Many of applications have already been submitted since the unidentified family advertised their search for the £180,000 per year tutor, who must be "a uniquely qualified person".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has attracted interest throughout the news, with several wondering why?

Progressive Approach

A tutoring expert, CEO and founder of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their quest, explained that despite first skepticism, he considered the idea "visionary", and "progressive".

When he met the family, he said they appreciated the atypical character of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

But, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had held off until their firstborn was five, and by that point "cultural influence had already taken hold".

But what did the family indicate by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam answered. "The manner you eat, the way you speak".

He said the elder child had adopted "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had assumed their cultural norms. The family informed Adam they did not want this pattern to recur with their new baby.

The intention: To bring in a UK tutor, who must speak with Received Pronunciation, to shape the baby right from the beginning.

Natural Absorption

"A lot of the learning at the start here is somewhat absorbed naturally," explained Adam.

It's by means of this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will acquire the British traits they wish to impart.

The consultant noted the tutor must be an individual who attended "the appropriate educational institutions – comparable categories of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The instructor must be the appropriate candidate, they'll be performing things they aren't even aware they're doing, effortlessly," he commented.

Money No Object

The family told him the selected educator should preferably also have understanding of or interest in equestrian activities, winter sports, the arts and musical activities so as to influence the child in a diverse set of interests.

Furthermore though, he said the family desired the tutor to register the child on a range of courses so the child would be "equestrian training and learning an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's view, helping their son develop into a "British gentleman" will result in accomplishment and open doors.

"Considering the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's definitely a class statement," he comments.

But, in spite of all this tutelage in "Britishness", could the child adopt what is termed cultural influence from the globally influenced family he resides with regardless?

"Yes", replied he. "The family realize this may not work, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'we should try and let's go as soon as we can', because the cost of it is irrelevant," he said.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

Several in the education sector who have similar concerns.

Peter Cui, chief executive of an educational organization, who provides personal educators, wrote that "the journey of becoming bicultural, or indeed, forming one's identity, is something that must be lived into, not engineered."

Peter explained that he had moved from the Far East to the United Kingdom at the age of 7 years old, and had been raised understanding and practicing both cultures. He went on to learn at Cambridge University.

"The concept that an individual can act as a embodiment of Britishness, a person who can in some way transplant the qualities of a UK sophisticate onto a 12-month-old child, strikes me as naive and unfeasible," he stated.

"In my experience, having a quintessentially English tutor from early childhood will not automatically create the result they desire.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and however I have been privileged enough to live several of the experiences they aspire for their son."

He stated: "The truth is, self-identity can not be dictated from the external environment; it must be chosen, and it must be internally driven."

Buying Britishness

Of course, UK identity is something Adam thinks can be taught – and commercialized.

"In my view the reality that the international society views us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating